Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Coming up for air. New toys, orgasms for us middle-agers...

Another period of "life is busy" has kept me from posting much.

But a lot has been going on for us kink-wise! New toys, and new explorations of our fetishes. MmmmHmmmmmm!

I've been enjoying my en-femme time, mostly just around my weekly electrolysis appointments. I'm loving the progress, and how much MUCH more smooth my face feels now!

As for new toys, those are most recent. Glass dildos - oh yes! we have only used them once so far, and it was good!



This one Miss nick-named "Blue Balls." It's a G-spot (left side) and an anal (right side) dildo. We started using this one on her first. 

Just some background, for many years now our "recipe" for Miss to have great orgasms is with her on top, with a bullet vibe pressed between her clit and my pelvic area. That allows her control of the pressure of the vibe against her clit, and it's "hands free." But we have never really used any toys inside her (well, other than my PA piercing). Yes we know well about the G-spot, but she has intense orgasms (like epileptic seizure style, lots of massive convulsions!) with just clit stimulation so we never really were motivated to explore it.

Back to Blue Balls... So with her on her back, lying down, I use a little lube and ease it into her. I think her initial reaction was hey, what's going in me?! After she got used to it I oriented the dildo so the penis end was in her and the curve of it was up to hit her G-spot. I tried different depths, pressure, speed of stroking, twisting slightly side to side, going in and out and side to side at the same time, and so on. It seemed like she was experiencing sensations she has never had before, so I think this will take a little getting used to (like getting used to anal for me - hehehehe!) I took her direction as we went as to what was working for her.

Eventually she decided she was turned on enough, and she wanted to cum. So she got out the bullet vibe and started playing with herself while I continued on with Blue Balls. It was a little tight (pun intended) with both things going on at the same time, but boy did she end up with an awesome orgasm!

We then moved on to the other dildo. The first glass dildo I ever remember seeing was called "The Juicer." It had a handle on the outside end, so you could spin it around. I always wanted to find out if that works for a girl and now I get to find out.


This was easier for me to use on her as it's not a thrusting motion it's a spinning motion. There are "nubs" in the glass that are to provide stimulation to her vaginal opening, and to her clit. Unfortunately we went right to this after round one, and Miss was not quite recuperated yet.

So we moved on to one of our new kink/fetishes, which we had barely explored years ago. Miss wasn't really interested in it back then, but I brought it back up and was politely persistent about it with her, and she finally gave in and let me give it a try a few months ago.

Oh! DAMN! Humoring me in this was the best thing she has done for herself in quite a while (I say with all humility and respect!) And as far as sex goes, "I think" it is probably in her top 5 "best sex" things ever. And the big reveal for you wonderful readers out there, is that she let me eat out her ass! On a personal note, that act is turning me on in the most awesome submissive slave kind of way. What says "I love you" more than being willing to lick clean your partners ass?!! Let me tell you I was rock hard and my mind was blown away at the submissive emotions!!! I was out of my mind! With every lick, it seemed to cause my cock to throb :-D

The first time she let me do this she wasn't quite comfortable with it, but the second, or maybe at most the third time, when I was done back there, and we went back to our tried-and-true methods I mentioned above, she had her usual earth shattering orgasm.

When she was done, then I proceeded to my orgasm (normal routine for us). While on my way to my fun, she had a second earth shattering orgasm! Spoiler alert - this was new ground for her! I hate to say it, but she is a bit like a guy, in that when she has a big O, she is done for the night (as far as orgasms go).

Double spoiler alert! We are baby boomers, around 50. Mother nature messes with us in different ways as the years go by. She hadn't shared with me that she hasn't been having the earth shattering orgasms like in the past, for a while :-(. I wasn't at all aware of this. So low and behold, after we come down from all the sex, she tells me about it. And she tells me "Thank god! I thought I was never going to be able to cum like I used to! And I have never had two [huge/earth shattering] orgasms like that ever before!"

I took that as a huge compliment. Not in my skill, but just that I'm the one with her and lucky enough to be able to have a role here. We are having the best sex of our lives at an age where it often can start to suck really bad :-P

We then moved on to using Blue Balls on me. I am really curious about prostate massage and if I can be milked. Solo I have tried the Aneros but not often, and not with success for milking. Miss used the G-Spot end, not the anal end. I was on all fours doggie style and she gave me a good fucking with that thing. So much that it bruised me around my backdoor entrance. I don't even remember cuming, maybe I didn't as I'm not that used to anal and it can take a little more effort to get me to cum (which actually can be good!) But let me tell you, this night was in the best-ever categories for both of us, for sure.