A bit more Q & A from sara e

Thanks for keeping up with great comments and questions sara!

Panties
Let's see.... Miss does like to have me on edge when we go out in public when I'm in boy-mode, but she hasn't (yet!) pushed me to wear panties that would stand out and be very visible in my thin white shorts. I wear panties all the time except on Tidy-Whitey Tuesday. Every Tuesday I have to wear that horrible men's underwear - ecchhh!!! For panties I prefer bikini and hipster style, but if I'm sexing it up at the house for Miss, or we are going out dancing, I'll go with a thong for sure!

Music
We do love music, but we don't have any real standards. Neither of us have good singing voices so we don't often sing along to our favorites. Yes we like Katy Perry's "I kissed a girl" and we are big 80's fans so Cyndi Lauper's "Girls just want to have fun" gets us grooving, and "She-bop" gets the booties moving pretty good. Yes every now and then I give a shot at twerking - she seems to enjoy that :-)

Attraction
When I was young I was attracted to boobs. Pure and simple. I still am, and Miss teases me that when I do get them I'm going to be non-stop one hand on the boobs, the other on the crotch. Rinse and repeat ;-) As far as other body characteristics I find attractive, I'm all over the map. I tend to like fuller figured women, but I see beauty and sexyness in how people dress more than their body type. Of course a sexy and perverted mind is the most sexy thing there is!

Clothes
Clothes with side and back zippers I have just recently realized I really liked! I have a dress with a back zipper that I like the look of. The zipper is obviously larger than needed for functional purposes, it's a part of the styling. The look is very mildly "steam punk" like. My impression is that Miss kind of likes style for herself, but a little milder than the full-on style. I am going to have to keep an eye out for more of that style of clothes, it could be really fun!

Oh, and a side-note. I really love shopping now, and wearing clothes as a girl is actually FUN! I never enjoyed anything about boy clothes. Shopping for them is not enjoyable for me, never has been, and I have never felt "attractive" in boy clothes. I realize now that I just love being in girl clothes!

Thank you for the link of that retro romper you like! I have wanted to find one too but haven't yet. There are other pretty patterns on that site too! www.unique-vintage.com

Etc.

I love having a bikini tan, even if it's only the bottom half. I've seen where some girls have a heart shaped inverse-tan line on their bottom, and I'd like to see if next year I can make that happen. It looks like they sell bikini bottoms to do that like the picture above, but I'd probably try to figure out how to make that myself.

I had not thought of tucking my phone in my bra, but it sounds like a good idea as you said. When outside walking I can never hear my phone. So having it on vibrate in a bra sounds like I might have a chance to know someone is calling or texting.

As far as wearing scents or perfume, it's not something Miss nor I have thought about yet. She loves to have body scents for herself, but not really perfume.

Thank you so much sara elise for visiting my blog! I'm glad you got your birthday spanking too, and I would love to hear about your recent travels and punishments (co-ed college visit?) :-)

Take care everyone! HUGS!!!

Responses to some questions from sarah elise & my (natal) birthday

Hi sarah & all of you wonderful blog readers!

Sarah had posted some questions on a recent post (Speed Bumps and Pantyhose), so I thought I'd answer some of them, and also write up an update as I haven't posted in a while. It's been a busy summer with vacation and work and life, so that's my excuse :-)

Update on Shopping
Miss and I went again this past weekend. We shop at local stores usually as there are so many people in our area we don't worry about meeting people we know, but if I'm en-femme we usually go to different stores than our routine. I wore my ladies white shorts that are made of very thin material, where you can see the panties underneath if you try, but I wore nude panties so there really wasn't anything to see. I wore "boat shoes" with socks that were just below the top of the shoes. I keep my legs shaved and right now they are fairly well tanned, and Miss likes me to show them off when we go out so I put on some lotion to give them a little extra shine. I wore a guys polo top with a bra underneath, and a light touch of pink lipstick.

While shopping I was nervous as usual, but I did not really see if anyone noticed me or not in any unusual way. Miss must have been disappointed that no one seemed to notice me wearing a bra, so while we were at the checkout register Miss snapped my bra strap! In the moment, I didn't know if anyone noticed what she did, but Miss told me later that the cashier in the aisle next to us noticed. I had looked around right after Miss first snapped my strap to see if anyone did, and I had made eye contact with that cashier and she gave me quite a disapproving look back - so there you go :-)

Birthday and Sharing Clothes
Miss and I both pick out clothes for me when we shop weather we are together or not. The really fun thing is that we share clothes! It was my birthday last week, and she ended up borrowing one of my dresses to wear. Really at this point I consider anything of mine fair game for her to wear whenever she feels like it. I had picked up a new blue dress and wore that for my birthday. I didn't have time to do my nails as it was a weekeday, but Miss did do my fingernails Saturday night :-D

I'm the model, but this is
the dress Miss wore

My birthday dress
(w/flash - better color)

My birthday dress

OK, so that's the more routine updates... Just one photo left to add from my birthday - yep - got spanked with a hairbrush. Just short of 50 hard smacks! The "M" brand is just a week old in this picture, not all the scabbing has come off yet. Miss made it larger than it had been before, and I really like it!

Birthday Debauchery
OK, so I haven't posted too much about our kinky side (branding aside), but also last weekend Miss tried out some new toys on me that we just picked up for our Nova Solid State Violet Wand  (it works great for us!) The new electrodes were a lot of fun for us both (I of course was on the receiving end). I don't have any pictures from this, but here are the attachments she used on me. The flogger electrode was by far the more painful one. You don't actually "hit" with it, you drag it across the body - and the zippity-zap sounds it makes as she moved it across my body were impressive!

Flogger electrode

Curved "Y" electrode

Sex and motivation - spicing it up!?

sara, you posted that your wife seemed to get a little more sexually interested when she had discovered that you were wearing a bra!

"She pulled up my shirt for inspection. My bra was a dark blue w/white polka dots (love that pattern!). She commented that i had a strap that needed straightening, and i only had one clasp on... and fixed them. She made a few comments and laughed a couple times. We went to work, as we normally would! Oh, except for Her one comment about "itty bitty titties" and laughing, as i recall!"

I love the polka dot look too - and Miss does also. It's like 1950's Americana retro looking. She has a white polka dot on dark blue one-piece swimsuit in that style. If you get Betty Boop shorts I'd love to see what they look like!

"She's learned to spank my bottom during sex to get me harder, and to make me perform and give her a more energetic performance! She came... though i did not. Afterwards, she helped me as i lay beside her, getting myself off in my pink nylon panties. A nice night! i certainly feel more submissive after being in a bra."

I feel so much more pretty, sexy and relaxed when I am in female mode. My submissive side isn't directly tied to weather I'm en-femme or en-homme, but I do enjoy sex much much more when en-femme, and Miss does too. As for Miss, I think she is sometimes much more dominant and aggressive in bed when I am dressed up and in makeup :-P And yes, when she gets rough when we are having sex it gets me much more turned on. A little tity-torture, some pinching and biting here and there, some choking, it's all good!

OK, that's a wrap for now - my best to all of you out there in the blogosphere - have fun!